
Yep!! I am one of those annoying people who takes selfies, then shares them on social media! UGH. But before you delete me, block me or unfriend me, hear me out for a second…
First let me tell you that I have not always appreciated the selfie. In fact, I use to think it quite possibly may lead to the demise of our society as we know it!
I for sure rolled my eyes and judged anyone posting a picture of themselves anywhere and don’t get me started on those people taking pics of themselves at the gym!!! Come to think of it- I used to make snarky comments when I saw people working out live- you know those crazies running in my neighborhood!! Over achievers.
Here is the thing- the problem was mine, not theirs! They weren’t hurting anyone. They were just going about their day, sharing their love of what they were doing and loving life.
At the time I was in no place to stop to take a picture of myself, I was too busy hiding from cameras and looking the other way when I passed by a mirror. I was too busy hating the way I looked and felt and making every excuse in the book as to why I couldn’t possibly have the time to workout like them. I have kids! I don’t have time for that!
So, what changed and why do I take all these selfies??
Well first I found these amazing groups of Facebook of people just like me, you know- with kids and stuff, who were getting shit done! I was motivated and inspired by them. I started to make time for me. I started to feel better and the funny thing about eating well and getting off you butt- you lose weight! I lost 20 pounds and found a little confidence.
Then came the selfies!
I had lost all my workout partners. We got busy, our schedules just didn’t match and I was really missing the accountability. So one Sunday night I posted a picture of my workout cloths (not of me wearing them or anything crazy like that) and I posted on Facebook that starting tomorrow morning I was going to get up at 5 am to push play and wondered if anyone wanted to join me? 5 am rolled around, I got up, put on those cloths I set out, went downstairs and took a picture of myself in all my morning glory. Then I posted it! Slowly but surely people started joining me on Facebook at 5 am. We started our little accountability group. Slowly more people started liking and chiming in and I was hooked. When ever I wanted to ignore the alarm, I would think of the tens of people who were waiting for my post and I didn’t want to let them down.
Reason #1 I post those selfies…Accountability! I needed to be held accountable to those 5 am workouts!
Reason #2 came as more of a surprise. The more I posted those selfies, which caused me to stay consistent with my workouts, which delivered results, the better I felt about myself. I started to really truly love my selfie. I started to feel comfortable in my own skin. I started to feel pretty enough to want to be in pictures.
Isn’t there enough self loathing and in this world? Couldn’t we all use a little break from hating on ourselves?
So now when I see someone I know post a selfie I get so happy for them! I like and love those pictures right away. I love to see their smiling faces and I am glad they are confident enough in themselves to post that picture! If they are checking in at the gym or in their basement about to push play, even better! Good for them!
So there you have it! I am a selfie addict and I post about my workouts every day! You will not hear me apologize for it, in fact, I usually ask people to join me.
Love your selfie, you are beautiful!!!
